"The point of suffering is not to just dwell in it, but to overcome it"
To create greater and everlasting happiness in our lives requires us to address our Sufferings.
But for us to address our Sufferings requires us to first become aware of them - to discover them.
Beore we venture forth on a journey into discovering our Sufferings, we have to first develop a clear understanding of what "Suffering" is so that we can become aware of our Sufferings.
To understand the totality of what Suffering really is requires one to approach its definition with a simple mind. This is because when we approach the definition of Suffering with a complicated mind we can easily miss the definition in its entirety.
What is Suffering?
Simply put, whenever we are experiencing unhappiness, we are "Suffering."
It's that simple.
Realize that it does not matter the degree of Unhappiness in which we are experiencing - That sensation of unhappiness can be as subtle as a dust falling on our skin to the intense feeling of a boulder crashing down on us.
When one approaches the definition of Suffering with a complicated mind one can easily miss the simple definition of Suffering through over-analyzing the definition.
"Oh I am experiencing Unhappiness, but it's not so bad so I'm not Suffering"
"Oh I am experiencing impatience, but I'm acting patiently so I'm not Suffering"
Realize that as long as you are experiencing Unhappiness you experiencing Suffering. It's really that simple
And from this simplistic approach to defining Suffering then we can begin to lay out the different forms of Sufferings to understand it in more depth.
Sufferings are our Negativities.
I.e. our Negative Thoughts and our Negative Emotions. When we are Suffering, we are experiencing a Negative State Within and this includes Impatience, Anger, Fears, Negative judgements towards another, Lonliness just to name a few.
Whenever we are experiencing Negative Physical Sensations i.e. Uncomfortableness/Pain/Strain such as hands sweating and heart pounding caused by our Negative Reactions we are also "Suffering."
Thus whenever we are unhappy,
Whether it is from experiencing betrayal from someone,
Whether it is in failing our goals,
Whether it is worrying about the interview we are going to,
Whether it is from experiencing pricks at the heart from being envious of someone getting a promotion before us,
Whether it is from worrying about something that has not even happened yet,
We are Suffering.
Suffering In Depth
Outer and Inner Situation
Let us clarify the definition of Suffering even more to make it easier for you to become aware of your Sufferings.
In life, there is a common tendency for us to define whether or not one is suffering from based on one's Outer Situations.
- I.e. We perhaps would conclude that man is suffering just because he is poor
- I.e. We perhaps could say that woman maybe suffering because she is being surrounded by rude people every day.
- I.e. Or perhaps we would believe that boy is Suffering because he has a lot of homework to do.
Obviously, it is true that our Outer Situations can make us Suffer.
But whether or not we are "Suffering" will be determined by how we are actually feeling i.e. by Our Internal State.
Realize that without Knowing the Internal State of someone we will never be able to truly Know whether or not someone is suffering.
i.e. Perhaps that man is happy despite being poor.
I.e. Perhaps that woman is unfazed by the rudeness of other people.
I.e. perhaps that boy is excited about having a lot of homework to do.
Thus when we look deeper to understand what Suffering really is.
We have to realize that Suffering does not exist outside.
Suffering comes from Within
It is a State of Mind
And that state comes from our Perception of our own experience.
Thus to truly discover our Sufferings we have to make an inward journey into discovering ourselves at the level of the Reaction/Perception.
Whether or not we are Suffering will always be defined by the quality of our perception of an experience rather than the experience itself.
It is important to Know that Sufferings comes from our Perception/Reactions because without Knowing this we can easily point our fingers outwards at whatever we are experiencing/see as the cause of our Sufferings
i.e. pointing our fingers at the person or a situation which has made us suffer. But realize that experiences are as innocent as the sun shining in the sky. Some people like the sun. Some people don't. The cause of our Sufferings will always recede back to our own perceptions/reactions of the sun.
Thus to make it even clearer on what suffering really is, it is not so much about what you go through in life but rather what you are experiencing internally as you pass through them.
For instance, you can have all the popularity and fame in the world at the same time suffer on the inside. As unbelievable it may sound there are many people with an incredible amount of fame and fortune that are still Suffering with Depression and Lonliness to this day.
Realize that as Suffering comes from within, no matter how much we shower ourselves with happiness from the outside to address our loneliness, depression, fears, greed, it will never directly address the Cause of our Unhappiness from within. And these days many people address Unhappiness in such a way as to reach outward for things such as using entertainment / drugs/ alcohols/ smoke/ entertainment and all sorts but what time will eventually reveal that doing such does little to actually address the Cause of Unhappiness.
To discover the Deeper Cause of our Sufferings begins with developing the Knowing of The Self at the level of the Perception/Reaction rather than just blindly focusing on the Actions. This is because our Actions are usually a mask in which we put on to hide our true selves. Our reactions will always present the real raw Self at that moment.
See the Catalyst - Action/Reaction for more details
For instance you may smile and tell everyone that your day is great but on the inside you may be dying from depression.
You may "believe" that you are happy with your high paying job but your deeper emotions/thoughts may tell you otherwise.
The more we develop the Knowing of The Self at the deeper/raw level at the Reaction Level the more Sufferings we will discover.
Suffering as moments
Suffering can be defined as a moment where we have a negative experience and that moment can last as long as a life time of loneliness and depression, or as short as a passing moment of fear.
Suffering as feelings
A Suffering experience can also range from the most subtle as from being negative towards the bad weather or towards someone for being rude to experiencing extremely negative reactions such as jumping off an airplane.
So yes, when we finally understand the simple definition of Suffering in its entirety.
It is only then we Realize that we are in fact experiencing some form of Suffering every day. In fact, as you become more and more aware of your Inner World, you will perhaps realize that in every moment you are experiencing some form of Suffering - sometimes so subtle that you can easily miss.
As we develop the awareness of our Inner Worlds, we will be able to detect our deepest worries and fears brimming in the depths within.
Thus from a spiritual perspective - There is a lot of work waiting to be done!
Unawareness of our Sufferings
Most of us are not aware of the Deeper Side of ourselves because most of the time we spend our days looking only ever outwards.
That is why there is a lack of awareness of the Inner Worlds. And because of the lack of awareness it can be difficult for one to acknowledge that they have some form of Sufferings waiting to be addressed within not to mention the amount of ego people have these days to accept their own vulnerabilities.
A big reason as to why most of the time we are not aware of our Sufferings is also be due to the nature of the Suffering Experience itself.
i.e. Suffering is something that is there but not quite there.
For instance, you may have a lot of Anger and Fear issues but you will never quite realize you have it until someone comes along or you encounter an experience to bring it out into light.
Likewise, just because a person locks himself in his house and spends his lifetime living inside happily and not experience any fears/anger/impatience does not mean that person has no fears/anger/impatience. It is only when that person steps outside into the world - outside his comfort zone - that person can truly find out how much Sufferings he carries. This is because experiences in life help to bring out to light the darkness within.
Thus Suffering is something that can be well hidden from our view when we lack the Knowing of The Self.
And because it is so well hidden, much of us do not know where it is from and how to address it. What's worse, most of us have even come to the belief that Suffering is something "Natural" to have - and as a result the suffering continues - the developing of the Knowing of it ceases - thus in the end our Sufferings are left unaddressed.
Realize that when we submit to the Idea that if we have Sufferings such as Anger/Fears/Impatience we'll just have to live with it with the rest of our lives -
Then we will.
But we don't have to.
Realize that all forms of Sufferings can be Transformed and Released.
When we are shrouded in Misery we can come to the illusory belief that the Suffering will never disappear. And we will always be so pessimistic when we are live in Darkness, in Ignorance, in a Lack of Kowing of what Suffering is and the Deeper Cause of it.
That is why the very first step to addressing our Sufferings is to discover it.
Then we develop the Knowing of it.
And then Transformation will naturally come.
Path Of Creator
Sufferings In Relation To The Path Of Creator
The Path Of Creator is about Creating Happiness - Everlasting Happiness
Realize that we can never truly experience Happiness as long as we experience Suffering.
I.e. how can you truly be happy if you are impatient? How can you truly be happy if you are always judging yourself or others Negatively?
Thus to Create Everlasting Happiness we have to Transform and Release our Sufferings.
But before we can do that we first have to discover our Sufferings.
That is why we develop the Knowing Of The Self.
As covered in the 7 Chapters of The Path Of Creator we have come to Know that all forms of Sufferings will recede to a Negative Idea (Ideas which promote the Rejection of The Self).
Thus to the deeper mind, all forms of Sufferings whether it is the Fear of heights, the Fear of certain situations, the Negative States of Anger, Anxieties, Impatience, Judgement are simply the state of Rejection of The Self.
It is only when we observe the world from a linear perspective where all things seem separate in time and space that we categorize Suffering into different forms such as this Suffering is anger, and this Suffering is doubt, this Suffering is jealous - that Suffering is fear. But in Truth, suffering is just suffering much like an apple is an apple. Like an apple, when our Sufferings are being viewed from a different angle, then that apple can "seem" to take a "different form" much as a Negative Idea can be experienced differently when viewed from the different levels of The Self.
From a spiritual perspective Suffering is equal to a lack of Knowing because Suffering is the bringing of awareness to the blind side of The Self that is waiting to be discovered and known (for the light to be shined upon.) Thus the address and discovery of Sufferings is of utmost importance to the soul as for the soul to grow and expand in consciousness/light/vibration etc it is dependent on the development of the Knowing of The Self thus Self-ignorance will only lead to a path of stagnation.
A bigger course on how to discover all your sufferings will be released in the near future.
And after you have discovered your Sufferings, you can explore the Catalyst - Discovering the Negative Ideas to discover the ways of finding the Seed Cause to your Sufferings.
Develop Experienced Knowledge
Become aware of the unhappy moments throughout the day and write down these moments. Having this list will help you discover your Sufferings, and perhaps even the theme of your sufferings.
You can ask the following questions throughout the day
"How am I reacting? feeling? thinking?
The Creator's MeditationLink here
As you meditate, become aware of all moments where you experience suffering
This can be done by being constantly aware of the level of Happiness that you are experiencing in every moment and as you go through the body journey what you will realize that there will be parts of the journey when you will be happier and parts of the journey when you will be less happier and these moments will be caused by your Sufferings. Simply observe these moments and gradually as you keep doing this day in and day out you will begin to realize the Deeper Cause of your Sufferings.
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